We’re talking about this overused, misused and misunderstood word called: “Love.” It is an extremely powerful word and it is also the central theme of the Bible so I believe it behooves us to investigate it deeper and try to wrap our minds around the fact that our majestic, all-powerful, all-knowing, perfectly holy, God is passionately in love with imperfect, openly rebellious, frequently stubborn people like us – John 3:1 says: “How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” This is the “agape” love that is undeserved and sacrificial. A love that is seen in our God who loved us even though we didn’t deserve it and it cost Him greatly to do so. I believe the fullest extent of God’s love is not seen so much in His decision to create us, rather it was seen when we became sinful and unlovely and He chose to love us still by sending His Son to die for us. And I also believe that it is our assignment and responsibility as Christ Followers to demonstrate and walk in that same “agape” love everyday of our lives. We are called to love people the way God loves us and we should desire the best for them and when at all possible, we should do whatever we can to ensure they flourish, grow and become successful. It is so empowering to people when they know you’re in their corner and on their side. We should be communicating to others is that we believe in them, they can be effective and successful and we really desire for them to win. And why should we be desiring that? Because that’s what God desires for us! It’s AGAPE LOVE! It’s the thought behind what Paul wrote in Romans 8, “If God is for us, who can be against us?” What a beautiful thought: that God is cheering us on, equipping us, enabling us and believing in us. How can we ever give up knowing that? Who can you cheer on today?
But before we get too ahead of ourselves we must remember that in our efforts to show this “agape” love, it’s not always easy or done ’softly.’ The fact is, if you love someone in the “agape” way, then you must be willing to discipline them if need be. You may even have to do things that cause pain to this person (not physical pain of course) if it is the only way to keep them on the path to reaching their full potential. Genuine, pure, “agape” love is a love that is willing to offend or disturb those who are being loved if it is for their good. Being FOR someone is more important than just wanting to spare them pain or make them feel good. If I am really FOR a person, then I am willing to risk confronting them with painful truth if it is the only way to bring growth in their life. “Agape” love then is not only a willingness to exhort, forgive, encourage and celebrate; it’s also a willingness to warn, reprove, or confront when necessary. It’s a great thing to have someone in your life who loves you enough to be honest with you when you are doing something counterproductive to your walk with the Lord! But we must remember Paul’s words in Ephesians 4:15 when he said that when we are: “speaking the truth in love, [our desire is that others] may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ.” If you can’t speak TRUTH smothered in LOVE, packaged in HUMILITY and wrapped in BROKENNESS: just be quiet and pray for the person you’re concerned about. You’ll thank me later.
Pastor Jeff Burke
pastorjeff@lwwconline.com
I couldn’t be more excited about our upcoming Wednesday evening services here at LWWC we’re calling, “Deep End.” As we embark on this adventure, I was reminded of one example of when the Lord Jesus encouraged….no, commanded His followers to go deeper. In Luke 5:4 Jesus tells Peter: “Launch out into the deep and let down your nets for a catch.” Here He instructs Peter to go deeper, and when you’ve launched out into the deep end you’ll be much more productive in what you’re trying to accomplish. Last week we established that this boat Peter and Jesus were in was a beautiful picture of the Church. To Peter, this boat had been a place of discouragement, toiling and frustration, but when Jesus climbed on board, that boat became a place of intimacy, teaching and fellowship. But as we look closer at this passage we see Jesus gave Peter a clear, two-fold command: “Launch and let down your nets.” This is important because we need to notice that Jesus never